You know, want to meet someone is not enough to find love. However, this is not remaining closed like an oyster you will interest anyone. Rather, it is important to open up to each other and give up your prejudices to be in the right frame of mind: one that allows the other to give the best of himself.
Openness is essential to true and sincere encounters. If you adopt an observant posture, the person in front of you can not be because she feels judged, observed.